Follow-up letter to George Tinning, Managing Director, Co-operative Funeralcare

Charles Cowling

Dear Mr Tinning,

It’s almost a fortnight since I wrote to you on 27 June. You haven’t replied. I’m disappointed, of course. I’m not wholly surprised, though. You’ve had a lot on your plate in the aftermath of Undercover Undertaker — and now you’ve got an Early Day Motion in Parliament to contend with. The reputation of Funeralcare is in tatters. What a distressing thing to happen in the middle of the United Nations International Year of the Co-operatives. 

Well, it was all bound to come out some time. I hope you see that, now. 

I am determined to look on the bright side. I like to believe that you are preoccupied with a full review of the way you operate so that you can relaunch Funeralcare with the core values of co-operation reinstalled, together with a renewed sense of mission both to the bereaved and to those who serve them. It must be reassuring to you to know that you employ some really good, caring people. They deserve better of their management. 

So I simply want to repeat my offer: when you have faith-restoring messages that you need to get out to the public, please let us know so that we can do our bit to publicise them. The raison d’être of the Good Funeral Guide is, let me remind you, to direct funeral shoppers to the best people in funeral service. Our core purpose is to sing praises, not to shower blame. 

It’s not just the audience of the Good Funeral Guide I want you to reach out to. Before you write to me, please would you write to Sharon McCoy in Runcorn. She has written to you, too, and she, likewise, has not had a reply. She endured a thoroughly unsatisfactory funeral arranged by Co-operative Funeralcare. Of its many unsatisfactory elements, the most distressing was the loss of her mother’s jewellery when it was transferred to another branch. She needs a better and more plausible explanation than the one she has been given, Mr Tinning. Above all, she deserves an apology. When you address this matter, you might look into your complaints procedure, too. When Sharon rang your Client Relations department she was to all intents and purposes stonewalled. 

I very much look forward to hearing from you.

With all best wishes,

Charles

 

 

 

 

 

 

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andrew plume

Hello Charles

and as you rightly say, their business model is ‘self-destructive’

the possibility of Mr T (or indeed anyone of any calibre) replying to your letters + a host of other issues is fairly remote and by doing so, imo, they are inflicting more damage on themselves

regards

andrew

Paul Hensby
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I don’t hold out too much hope that Cooperative Funeralcare client relations will be very helpful. They sent me a staggeringly illiterate email in which the word funeral was spelled fuenral…and client was cleint. My annoyance can be read here:
http://blog.mylastsong.com/2012/06/29/co-operative-funeralcare-cant-spell-funeral/

gloria mundi
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The course of healing for Mr T and his staff is a wonderful, generous idea. I suppose it well happen the day after hell freezes over. But if they find out about Jon’s proposal, even thinking about it might help them change track before it’s too late and whole thing disintegrates – which if they carry on as they are doing, must surely, eventually, happen?

Beverley Webb
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Hi This is the group link on facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/114311045377655/ It is called Collectively against Co-op, it is our story at the hands of Co-operative Funeralcare Weymouth and their Head Office managers and our wish that the way our mum and family were treated does not happen to anyone else It is hard even to grieve let alone be prayed upon by some of the heartless money driven managers of this organisation. We have said all along that we are sure Co-operative Funeralcare must have some excellent front line staff who are in the job for the right reasons, demonstrate dignity… Read more »

Rosie
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Thanks Beverley,
Unfortunately I don’t do Facebook. The NDC does so I will ask Fran Hall to link to your site or whatever it is you ‘with-it’ folk get up to.
Regards Rosie

Jon Underwood
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Hi Charles, Its really good that you’re continuing to voice the concerns of those of us that think the public deserve better funerals. Tony Piper mentioned that you’re planning to continue to write. Great news! Tony and I came up with an interesting proposal for George and his management team. We’d like to host a Death Cafe, specifically for them, in a place of their choosing. They can expect the finest cakes and we’ll even provide a bottle of plonk. In this convivial environment we’d ask them to talk about the fact that they, themselves are also going to die.… Read more »

Rosie
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Hello Beverley
I have just realised who you are, sorry for being a bit slow.

I look forward to hearing from you about the location of your Website.

Regards Rosie

Andrew Hickson
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Hi Beverley
When you say “the link I have posted” what do you mean please? There don’t seem to be any links, and your clickable profile doesn’t seem to go anywhere.
Thanks

Rosie
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I agree Gloria. unfortunately families seem to think that they cannot change FD once any service ie collection, has taken place. Regardless of whether, or not, they have signed anything. Beverley, who are you? What is your website? Apologies if I should know who you are, been a bit distracted recently. I would google you but your reference to regulation has immediately made me lose heart, although I am intrigued as to who you might think of as a suitable independent scrutiniser? I wonder how many lovely co-op staff I have met over the years have been powerless to fulfill… Read more »

gloria mundi
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It’s a comforting thing to say, that front-line coop staff are doing a great job, because we know of some managers who are not. But unfortunately, a look at some of detailed stories on this blog and elsewhere shows that is not always the case. Look at the above example! We need to look at each FD, Coop or otherwise, to see how they treat us before we give to him or her a very important job. The great pity is that because so many of us don’t think about death and a funeral until it happens, we are in… Read more »

Beverley Webb
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Thank you Charles for your honest open approach, perhaps Sharon McCoy and Rosie might like to look at the link I have posted for our website, the purpose is to bring about regulation of all funeral directors, including some of the front line Co-op staff who do a great job and have nothing to hide – but also to bring those who feel they do not need to answer to their actions and make them actually accountable through a independent accreditation scheme
Kind Regards
Bev

Rosie
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I have only been on the periphery for13 years and, of course, the issues in dispatches come as no surprise to me or anyone I know. Isolated incidences, my foot. This week I received a feed-back form from a lady who used an association of natural burial grounds site. The cemetery got full marks, however, when questioned about the funeral directing she was not at all happy ” Mum had been very clear that there should be no flowers, the funeral director told us that would make it look like a pauper’s funeral”. How caring and compliant with the choice… Read more »

Mr XX
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Mr XX

I do hope that you are not holding your breath Charles?

Sharon McCoy
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Sharon McCoy

Thank you Charles for raising my issue in your letter, my sister and I really appreciate it.