One more post about how we should speak of and to our dead people.
All of us, probably, cling to the superstition that we should not speak ill of them — not too ill, anyway (just mildly critically, perhaps). To do so could have calamitous, possibly supernatural, consequences. Hush and awe hold us in their sway.
The YouTube clip above shows someone speaking very critically about a dead person — very critically indeed. How must his parents have felt?
I am indebted to Pam Vetter for pointing me to it. Thank you, Pam. How do you find them?!